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Pulling away from closeness is not a commitment problem. It is a regulatory strategy. This is the science of how it works and what it costs.

If you have been described as emotionally unavailable, distant, or unwilling to commit, and if none of those descriptions quite fit how you experience yourself from the inside, there is a scientific explanation for the gap. The avoidant attachment pattern is not a character flaw or a choice to withhold. It is a learned regulatory system, built in the earliest years of life, that learned to suppress attachment needs because expressing them reliably produced dismissal. That system is still running in your adult relationships, whether or not the original conditions still apply.

This is not a guide to becoming more emotionally open and it is not written for your partner. It is a rigorous, research-grounded account of the avoidant attachment pattern: its developmental origins, its physiological signatures, its relational costs, and the specific conditions under which it changes.

What this book covers:

• What deactivating strategies are and how the avoidant attachment system inhibits proximity-seeking, suppresses attachment-related thoughts, and down-regulates distress in ways that are largely automatic and largely invisible from the inside
• Why Bowlby's concept of compulsive self-reliance captures what the popular account of avoidance consistently misses: that avoidant self-sufficiency is a defensive structure, not a preference
• What the physiological research reveals about avoidant attachment, including the documented dissociation between suppressed self-report of distress and simultaneously elevated physiological arousal
• Why avoidant attachment and introversion are empirically distinct constructs despite being consistently conflated in popular psychology, and what the research shows about their independence
• How emotional minimisation operates as a cognitive strategy that produces professional advantages and significant intimate costs
• What the research on implicit affect in avoidant adults reveals: that the emotional material is present and accessible under specific conditions, even when it does not reach conscious report
• What the evidence shows about whether and how the avoidant pattern changes, and what the research on earned security reveals about the conditions that make softening possible

R. V. Langford draws directly on the research of Bowlby, Mikulincer, Shaver, Dozier, Kobak, and the neuroscientists who have mapped the physiological signatures of avoidant attachment, producing the most research-precise account of this pattern available to the general reader.

Readers who recognise the pattern and want the science behind it rather than a characterisation of themselves as emotionally broken will find it here.

Parametry knihy

• Plný název: Avoidant Attachment
• Podnázev: Why You Pull Away From Closeness and What the Research Says About Changing It
• Autor: R. V. Langford
• Jazyk: Angličtina
• Vazba: Brožovaná
• Počet stran: 220
• EAN: 9798183538229
• ID: 52994846
• Nakladatelství: Independently published
• Hmotnost: 302 g
• Rozměry: 229 × 152 × 12 mm
• Datum vydání: 21. June 2026

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